Thanks for all the info so far. I'll check back after my trip.
As for "someone else," I think it's possible that there's a guy she's having an inappropriate friendship with. He's married too. I think maybe some flirting and some long discussions. She could be getting some much needed ego boost from it but I can't see either of them getting together because of the circumstances.
No cell phone history. I've already checked. I also had her followed one afternoon and found out she only went to a park to "think" for an hour and a half.
I've caught a few lies about her whereabouts but right now (as AAK says) it's not my biggest issue. We can deal with that later if something happened.
Right now I just want to figure out a way to get her back. I DID hurt her very much a few years ago as stated in my post so I really believe that she's built up a wall of defense now. She's not sure if she wants the relationship to continue because she still believes I'll go back to the old ways and hurt her again. She's not going to put herself through that again.
Any of you girls out there have any thoughts on how she may feel and how I could break the "wall" down??
