Trapt, you would just be spinning your wheels trying to hit her with some truths. She is not gonna hear them.
It is easy to be bitter about it all. But, that is also such a waste of headspace. I prefer to look at how I have grown, what I have learned about myself and to see a better future. Bitter doesnt change anything and it holds you back.
So, T, the world is your oyster. And one day, someone is going to be very lucky finding you.