poepad Love your comment! you seemed to have hit the nail on the head with us. I feel like I'm scaring him off at times. I have learned over the past several months to give him space but then I get discouraged because nothing happens.
Our children our grown now ( 23,19&18). We have both dedicated our lives to them and I have really been looking forward to them leaving the nest so we can have time for each other. I thought this alone time with each other would be great but I think it has made matters worse. He seems more afraid than ever to get close to me and I feel very alone. I'm really still trying to figure out if it's can't or won't with him.See, there I go again almost blaming him by saying he won't. I guess I should have said, it is either he can't do it or he doesn't have the desire. He says it's not me, but he really won't talk about it enough to find out the real problem. I ask him what I can do but he says nothing, that it's his problem, but it is affecting US not just him.
If you find an herbal treatment that works please let me know so I can suggest it.
