HELP!!! I need my DB brothers and sisters!

[missmyfriend]

I have asked my two older children over to the house every night to visit and so far they have been open to spending time with me.

I am seeing some frustration in my youngest. He sees them come over and then go back to their moms. He feels as though they should either stay at home with us or not come over. I have explained that I love them all and will do whatever it takes to see them as much as possible and that includes him, if he is at his moms as well.

I asked him when he went to bed as to when he would be going to his moms. He said he wasnt sure if he would. I told him that although I would prefer to have him every night, his mom is important and he needs her as well. I told him that if he feels he has to show me that he is devoted to me, I already know that but at the same time, I would hope he has a R with his mom.

Gotta go back to class. Ttyl