GraniteRose I see that you give some great advice! Thanks for your support. I have seriously thought about therapy but don't know if it would do me any good to go alone and I know I could never talk him into going with me because it would embarras him to death. He won't even talk to me about it. But then again maybe it would be easier for him to talk to someone else. I will try to bring it up to him. Thanks so much for your help.
