back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

Steady thanks. Sorry to hear your sitch. I feel your pain. The disagreement thing and moving stuff out happened on the last day of vaca we had. She came back and brought all her bags up to the room and that was that. I am detaching more and more. The kids are having a hard time and all the plans just keep getting put on hold. I should say all the promises; getting a dog, going away for a weekend etc.

I am worried about W and her depression and how it is effecting the kids. Our old marriage counselor and my therapist both said I need to get her to see a therapist for her own good. They think she is bipolar or at least in severe depression.

She can’t think straight, no memory, can’t carry on a conversation with anyone, no energy, sleeps or naps quite often but not through the night, irritable with angry outbursts at the kids, consistent daily migraines, constant stomach aches and problems, stopped running and exercising (which she did daily) and she is drinking while on her SSRI meds.

These symptoms are all back again. I think the depression was there for about a year but she didn’t do anything about it. It has escalated since she decided to not continue our reconciliation and then doctor had her meds upped by 2X to try and level her off and prevent her “anxiety meltdowns”.