I'll be seeing him in a few days for the first time in over 3 months. He wants to sit down and have a very lengthy discussion about the details for our D, and I don't know if I can bring myself to do it.
If I do, I feel I'm virtually doing the filing myself. He wants to hear from me everything I want from the D because he knows I don't really want to D.
If I don't talk about it, I don't know if he'll ever take the initiative to do it, and if he does, I almost feel he's doing a rather good job of trying to screw me out of what I want.
If you're not ready to talk about it,and you're not then don't. First meet with a L to find out what a good settlement is for you, tell him you need to do this. Tell him it makes no sense to talk when you are uninformed.
I'm sure your H will get all made, but you don't have to take that, as you know.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
