Quote: We did try something different last night that seemed to help. No sex, just some physical contact. It was nice, and even though it didn't lead to anything else, it was nice just to be held and feel loved. Like I said, I think that part is just as bad as not having sex.
That's good! Take it one baby step at a time. If there's nothing medically behind the low desire, you have to work on the mental side of it. Would going to therapy be an option for either or both of you?
