Just like I do with my W. I just asked an open ended question, let her talk, and asked an occasional question.
You are a cat whisperer.
Just stay patient. When the cat doesn't respond it helps to turn and walk away sometimes. Cats are curious and will follow you.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
