To me this sounds like she is cake-eating. When I was in this situation, somebody on the board asked me if my W was a loner? Apparently she wants to separate, but not really, because she stays in the house. Have you separated your finances? What would happen if you suggested to her to move out? Of course, it depends on whether you are detached enough to stomach this one.
Someone else here described that it takes a drastic step to get out of limbo. There is a good chance that things fall back in place, but there is also a risk that you put the final nail into the coffin. The only question is how long you can handle limbo and when it is time to attempt to wake her up.
AN
M43 W45, M17 S9 D6 Bomb: 11/11/08 EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ? Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09 Healed, but still heading for D My situation
