I hear you lowneil - that's why I have done a 180 and gone to counselling (which I have just started) - for ME and instigated by ME.
I wish you well and I truly hope that this has made your W sit up and smell the roses ... sometimes, that's just what we need. I wish that my husband had given me such a wake-up call instead of just walking ....
Look afer yourself.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"