How can WAS put themselves before their children?

[Augtan]

I have no idea!! I have been asking the same question for a year!! My H was a great husband and father till he laid eyes on a wh**e from his work!! Now we live in Ohio and he is still in Georgia with her. He barley calls the kids, never sees them, says he "might" come up for one of our son's football games!! Before he was a coach and never would miss a minute of their sports, never missed a minute of any of the important stuff sports or other. Now his whole life is her and only her!! It breaks my heart each and every day for my kids, they go from having this Dad who cares to one that only cares about himself. I had no choice but to move away, the pain that he chose her over us was unbearable, then I needed a full-time job and support from my family, all here in Ohio. I have no idea how he looks himself in the mirror thinking he is anything but awful for chosing a woman like that over us. I know if the tables were turned, I would move where ever he took my kids, to the other end of the earth to be near them, I would never miss a moment of their life for anyone, no one is more important than they are!!