Originally Posted By: confusedinpa
What I do know is that next week, for the transition, my goal is to get my head on right so I can do it without needing my friends to do it for me. I'm not sure what type of attitude I should show her.


Hey cipa

good morning buddy. Just wanted to let you know that I think that this is a really good aspiring goal that you set up. Are you doing anything to mentally or other wise prepare for this to take place as you would like it to.

Consider showing her what you know to be true . And that is that you are rebounding to soon be a strong, confident, proud, loving and positive man. That is what I think you should do your best to try and convey. It of course will also tie into the initial phases of the quest for forgiveness towards her and her despicable behavior and utter betrayal. Like it or not that journey and lengthy quest for total foregiveness is a necessary one for the health and well being of you and your family. One step at a time when you feel up to those steps my friend.

I will be continuing to pray for you and the family.

T

ps As always, it was nice to talk to you last night.

Last edited by Tomato; 08/25/09 01:20 PM.

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