The truth is it may work out better for you if they are including the kids all the time. Remember. They aren't his kids. Once he starts to try and tell her how to discipline her kids or hears "you aren't my daddy", she may start to question what she is doing. The kids could actually work in your favor here. Trying to have a "love relationship" with a bunch of kids from two different families will make this HARDER to succeed.
WOW! I hadn't thought of that at all. She's already agreed to pull them way back from him. I could see how it might have played out if I'd left it alone. Now I could potentially have her bitter at me for taking her away from him AND not get the benefit of the possibility you described above.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
