I saw a letter in the recycling that W skipped her IC appt for last week. I think it was about the time she opened that letter that she started getting weird(er) than normal.
Yesterday she took S7 out to her girlfriend's house and one of their family events for the evening. She brought him home around 8 and left again. She said she was going to have dinner with the GF. In the time she was home though she was really off. Distant. Seemed angry. Nothing specific, but it was clear.
As she was leaving, I saw in her planner (it was open and sitting out, I wasn't snooping) that she had an IC appt today. She hates going to the IC. She ALWAYS gets weird (emotionally raw as she calls it) surrounding these.
I know I can't affect it, and it's detrimental to detaching to even wonder, but I still do. Is the IC telling her to "follow her happiness" or to try to fix her family? I can't control the outcone, but I still wonder.
I went to bed early last night again. I could tell, nothing good was going to come from talking to the W last night. Extra sleep is always good too.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
