Dammit, you guys are right. Everytime I think I'm doing a 180, it turns out I'm doing something wrong. In MC, she said I was foo quiet, and she always had to draw me into talking. When I try to GAL, I feel guilty. Going places without asking her bothers me. I know it shouldn't right now. I know she has a problem with stress, and instinctually I try to relieve her stress by offering to take the kids, or let her go to movies with her sister or something. And you are right, my happiness still depends to some extent on her. I did post earlier that I am doing a lot of stuff this week, so it is a start in the right direction. Please pray for me and continue to point out when I stray from the right path.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
