Well, just got two emails from H - one four days after I sent it (prior to the weekend, go figure) largely inconsequential and now filed in the 'I will not respond' folder!
The other one re the builders situation, above. H was apologetic that he had not copied me in to his communication with the tribunal - he said that he meant to do so but it's wasted on me -that's his usual excuse for everything (he has a shocking memory)! He did not mention the reason why he is not available until October and I have also filed this email in the 'I will not respond' file. I shall wait and see if he brings it up in conversation when he visits later in the week - not that he has given a day on which to arrive still .... I'm beginning to think that he won't come afterall. Or is my 180 of not asking him what day starting to pay off and he is waiting ...??
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
