I love the synopsis of your sitch, once again the similarities are uncanny. We do deserve more, how to get it is what’s deluding us at the moment. I’m going for a combination of staying away but being friendly if we have any contact. I’m a fixer too so this course of action (if you can call it that) is frustrating for me. It feels like nothing is moving in either direction.
Father’s Day – leave it for the kids to decide, best not to get involved in the R that they develop with their father. My H took the initiative in his own hands and asked the kids to spend time with him, which I thought at the time was a bit funny. Surely if it’s father’s day the kids should be arranging to do something with the dad not the dad sorting it out – still my H’s got a big ego (only thing bit about him lol). 
