Oh wow - well done you - I am so impressed that I am almost tempted to try this myself!! Do you feel good or what are your current thoughts - I expect that you are moving forward with some trepidation? Your heart must be singing but your head must be in question mode ...??
I have realised today that my H was being unfair in our M but I let my love for him overcloud everything and was willing to be the doormat that my independence upon him has led me to become. He has been willing to let me take all the fault and most of the blame in our failing M because I could not work out why he was so 'closed' to his emotions. Now I see it all and I feel totally cheated, even though his EA/PA only started recently and I KNOW that he has never strayed before.
I wonder if this would be a big 180 or would you consider it a gamble too large, unless I am prepared to go through with it - which I am not sure that I am? Were you worried about the consequences or did your self-survival instincts merely kick in??
My WAH said, when I threatened to D him in retaliation, that he would not consent (under UK law) as he would be financially disadvantaged. He has repeated that twice or three times when I brought it up again. Since then, I have not mentioned it.
Curious to see how your sitch pans out ... keep posting, won't you and GOOD LUCK
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
