Snodderly, thanks so much for jumping in so quickly with your timely advice!
Wish I could be more hopeful about H`s drama ending BEFORE separation happens. But he`s still barreling down that road.
He`s made an appt yesterday to see mediators for us to start negotiating separation. the only good thing about it is that he hasn`t opted for private mediation so it could take 3months for that appointment to come through.
I suspect its another tactic to draw me in and upset me. He`s tried anger, sadness, feigned madness, now he`s going for separation.
I reacted calmly.Just said ok. He left and then came back with a thanks for the apology I made the other night. I complimented him on being so brave for bringing up the subject of our relationship this past while.
