Not sure about the Big Boss, but my pastor gave me the go-ahead to file back in early May. I just have been to afraid to do it.
Met with the Pastor again 2 or 3 weeks ago, after Dan said he was going to see a lawyer. Pastor re-iterated that Dan left the marriage when he committed adultery for the third time, this time for at least 18 months...Dan left the marriage when he moved out the second time...Dan left the marriage every time he chose to go spend money on the strippers instead of giving his attention and time to me...
You get the idea. Basically my Pastor said he hoped that things could be restored, that it would make a great testimony to God if we could ultimately become a couple again. But he also said that Dan has done nothing resembling repentance at this point and as long as he chooses to live in his sin, if you will, he will just slide farther down the depths so to speak.
So I don't know, I am not that concerned about going out for drinks once. Who knows I may get there and he may be annoying as could be. Or he could give off 'friend' vibes and become a nice person to vent about life with given his ex cheated and lied, like Dan has... I know that I won't be sleeping with anybody that just isn't my style. I just want to have a nice time with a man who enjoys being with me rather than treating it like a challenge to overcome...
