It's hard. You've got 3 more weeks of an unbalanced relationship. You want to be nice and make it work. She thinks it's just fine to treat you any which way that happens. They will explain to her at Retrouvaille that you both have to be nice, and you both have to be fair. Will she do it? I don't know. But you've got a much better chance after Retrouvaille than before. So just keep holding on.