PSS GALing has not been an issue - I actually have needed to be home more. Until my son was 3, I gave it all up for my family. The last year I did a lot of theater which was for me. Now that H is gone, I need to spend more time with S. But H has always been a responsible dad. I'm lucky that way.I'm trying to be more available for H and S. Galing is going to have be something different now that I have given up theatre. I have started CODA support groups and I guess I'll take myself to movies or walks or something. Tonight when H showed up, I packed up my computer and said I was going out and he actually got weirded out. I thought he would not even care since he's the one constantly pulling away, threatening divorce. But he said,"is this something I should be worried about?" I can't fathom how taking my computer to Starbucks would be something for him to worry about, but it seemed like a positive sign that he wasn't just running as fast as he could from me. He noticed my GAL! Really what I did was go to the library to research California Divorce law!
