You're not stirring anything up that doesn't surface daily. I appreciate your input.
I like the disappearing while he's home!
And, I hear what you're saying about depression. Not sure how long you've followed, but the ILY speech came right after a major IRS issue, right after doing a complete restore/remodel of our 1911 home (10,000 square feet!) that he wanted to flip, not live in..., sending us into some nice debt, etc... You're right about the depression being a possibility, too. And, at one point, when cornered he would talk of "leaving all of us behind, driving into a tree, etc..."
We have come a long way. Thank you thank you for coming on in my thread.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
