Kassie, I think that you put it on hold as long as you want. You are the only one that you ultimately have to answer to! I also think that as long as hes making progress, thats hopeful! But you cant do this singlehandedly. There has to be something to give you hope.

Is the lease on a place for the 2 of you, or is he buying himself another year of stalling?

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...