How do you wait this out?

[Golfgirl1]

Well, our little 'date' didn't quite last that long as he had to go back to work. AND, he was not the one to ask me out, I asked him out. I sat back and listened about his job, his upcoming vacation and travels and all of his business details. I said very little. I see NO action on his part to wanting to try to work things out. He said that 4 out of 7 days he doesn't want to be married and he's very confused. I think it's time I just stop talking to him so he can figure stuff out...he's clueless and he likes to pin all of his problems and unhappiness on me. I hear repeatedly about how I damaged his body image (what? do guys really think like that) and yada yada. I should probably go NO CONTACT for awhile. As my friend told me..."you only get one chance for the gold." (she means I'm the gold..isn't that nice?)