Thanks for the reply. Yeah, my family aren't the right ones to talk to. My dad basically said, your wife has problems, get a divorce and make a fresh start. My sister is mailing me all sorts of stuff on father's rights, etc. I feel bad that I've upset them all.
Trying to find friends. Yeah, I see I should find another IC.
I talked to an aquantence today that's gone through some of this. Kind of feel like a dork saying, hey, I know I haven't talked to you in awhile, but I understand you've been through this - what do you know about lawyers, etc.? Kind of makes you feel like an emotional leach, but it was OK.
So, she made dinner and I did the clean-up, like we agreed. She took care of the kids this morning, I took care of them tonight, as we agreed. Then I said, I'll go in the other room - and she actually says, because you want to, or because you want to give me space?
Come one.
I just said, does it matter? Don't worry, everything's OK.
She's in a good mood tonight, so hopefully we can minimize drama for awhile.
