WAS seeing reality?

[v1olin]

I have been picking the girls up from school and playing with them until my wife gets home. But now I am leaving the house alot sooner than I was in the last 3 months. So now it looks like she is getting a taste of what divorced life will look like. For the last 3 months I would hang out while they ate dinner and even clean up the mess our D2 would make on the table and floor after they were finished. Keep in mind that the last time I had dinner with them as a family was 3 months ago. I would help get them baths and read bedtime stories and sometimes do the dishes. Now I drop off the kids say a few cheery things to my wife and then leave. I am no longer affraid to be alone.


I went to a highschool reunion over the weekend and got to try out some of my new communication skills and good looks. Worked great too! People think I am funny and interesting. When I told people what I do for a living they would say, "that is the most interesting thing I have heard all night." I make,restore and repair violins BTW. Sometime last week my wife was talking about how stressful her job is because she could screw up and lose 800K in product. Then I told her that could happen in my job too. She said, "you never worked on anything that expensive." HUH!! I told her that many times I had instruments in my workshop at home that were worth 500K to 900K. I know I had told her this in the past too. She is so self centered right now!



So, I have stuck to this no contact for the last two visits and tonight I left early again. Guess who calls 45 minutes later? Yes,her. She wanted to know where the 2008 tax return was, real urgent I know. I ignored it.


One hour later she calls again. She wanted to tell me that D7 did not want to do her homework. Then she tells me that D7 cannot play tomorrow until she does her homework. OK fine, I will help her with her homework while battysitting D2 at the ssame time. UHH, IF SHE WANTS TO BE A SINGLE MOM SOO BAD THEN WHY DOESNT SHE COME HOME EARLY AND HELP WITH HOMEWORK WHILE BABYSITTING D2?