Not saying there IS an OP, just saying the flags point to it. In my time here, the symptoms described, sadly, almost always wind up being an OP. In fact I cannot recall a time they have not (sigh).

Sorry for irking,

My advice stands, gather more information. If I am wrong FANTASTIC!

Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted