Hi sorry we had to meet. You asked for advice. My advice is get more information so you know what you are dealing with and can then better formulate a plan of action. I would bet a finger, NOT a thumb, but a finger, there is another guy.
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Wife dropped the bomb after an argument we had about her needing "her space."
Is typically code for, leave me alone so I can see someone else.
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I did ask her if there was someone else and at first she said she did not want to tell me. After a week, she finally told me that there was no one else
If there was no one else, the response would be, instantly, NO. Though, even when there is someone else, the response is also often NO. Also but the fact she did not answer no right away is incriminating.
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There may be someone else because there are times I can't reach her during the day and she gets upset when I question her.
...because there is someone else. Trust your feelings Luke. She is upset because you hit too close to home. Was she ever consistently hard to reach in the past?
Her running hot and cold is often an affair symptom too.
Like you said, you may not want to know, at this point, painful as it may be, it is probably prudent to know. One review of your online cell phone records will probably tell you what you need to know.
Be strong brother.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted