Welcome. First of all, I love your name on here. It shows you have a sense of humor despite your situation...good, you need that.

Second, I know this is hellish and you came to the right place. Read other threads and get the book Divorce Remedy immediately.

I will post some advice later when I have more time but you will certainly relate to other threads so start there.

There are many who have been in your shoes who will chime in, be patient.