So turn up the GIMA Mojo while she is out. House squared away, kids in bed, GIMA all suave, lights dim, candle burning and you just being catnip. Pull it off with no expectations.
You can buy me a beer later.

Cheers

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.