And the more I think about it, you are right in saying that they don't want to make decisions, I must say my H doesn't, all he wants to do is go along with whatever has been organised or done for him, no input, nothing.

He even asked me again this morning for like the 4th time, when our S is arriving. Bizarre given he is the one that told me S would arrive Friday morning, now he keeps asking me when he is arriving.

Further evidence of an MLC for my H is that he is now seeing one of those dentist people who make your teeth all nice, white and perfect and our bank account is showing nightclub, restaurant debits over the weekend (he seems to have forgotten about paying off credit cards). Nothing looks worse than a mid 40's MLCer hanging out in a nightclub with 20 something year olds, I wonder what term they can be given similar to the mutton dressed as lamb term that women get.



Trying to keep hope alive