First I am happy for you the surgeon says you are mending nicely and took the bandages off. Yeah!!!
I also want to say, I think H wanted to see you thus the reason for delivering the letters in person. I wish you had been home to discover the reason. I am curious now.
I am glad you had the opportunity to have a one on one with MIL. I am glad you are still close. That helps the DB efforts. It is a huge positive to H that you still care to have a relationship with his folks. My H is always glad to hear of me spending time with his Dad.
I wish you a wonderful evening with your family at the dinner.
I am confident that you will be "spot on" in behavior and appearance. Anxious to see how it goes for all of you.
I think you are making a wise choice and am happy you gave it a great deal of thought, you went with your gut instinct. This usually does not fail us....
I will check back in tomorrow or the next day. Things here are not going all that well. I am going to go dark here and see what happens. I tried to mix in a little initiated friendship by me and it has backfired to the point I am hurt. H is also doing some things I am not sure I can live with. I am not positive he is up to something new, gut is telling me he is. I have begun posting again on my thread. I find it funny that I could not post the positives but I somehow manage to post the crap.
Good luck at the dinner,
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11