Hi Cas,

First I am happy for you the surgeon says you are mending nicely and took the bandages off. Yeah!!!

I also want to say, I think H wanted to see you thus the reason for delivering the letters in person. I wish you had been home to discover the reason. I am curious now.

I am glad you had the opportunity to have a one on one with MIL.
I am glad you are still close. That helps the DB efforts. It is a huge positive to H that you still care to have a relationship with his folks. My H is always glad to hear of me spending time with his Dad.

I wish you a wonderful evening with your family at the dinner.

I am confident that you will be "spot on" in behavior and appearance. Anxious to see how it goes for all of you.

I think you are making a wise choice and am happy you gave it a great deal of thought, you went with your gut instinct. This usually does not fail us....

I will check back in tomorrow or the next day. Things here are not going all that well. I am going to go dark here and see what happens. I tried to mix in a little initiated friendship by me and it has backfired to the point I am hurt. H is also doing some things I am not sure I can live with. I am not positive he is up to something new, gut is telling me he is. I have begun posting again on my thread. I find it funny that I could not post the positives but I somehow manage to post the crap.

Good luck at the dinner,

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11