Reconciliation after divorce

[Sanderika]

Hi bonny,

That really is all you can do, work on you.

I hope you can get the email going back and forth. Just remember to keep it light and positive and no negatives.

Men speak in logic and have no use for emotional stuff.

Love him from afar, he will notice. He is watching from afar for sure. Don't disappoint him.

I think with time, after friendships are(re)built, is the only time a reconcilement is ever possible. The friendship must feel good on both sides and be free and fun. As long as OW(s) are in the picture it cannot go beyond a friendship. This is where DB gets toughest. DB is all about getting you back and second getting H to notice and hopefully want to come back to us.

Keep working towards your goals. You will be the better for it.

I am a downer right now. I have lost my get up and go for a bit. I am sorry if I come across that way. I am looking for better days.

Take care,

Sanderika