It's too bad that SS13 is feeling the results of this, but she will have to deal with his disappointment because she is responsible for him not being able to move back down.
I know the urge to respond is strong, BTDT. Glad to see that you have recognized that it wasn't working for you and pulling back has generated some results. Keep doing what works, get rid of what doesn't work.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g