LOL Silver! I just caught up on the last couple months, thought I had your thread watched but guess not.
Ok, so after the appendicitis there was swine flu, infections and pneumonia? Hello karma! Hope Catbitch is enjoying playing nursemaid and breadwinner.
Good for you for not playing into his dramatics. You absolutely should take the time necessary to get everything worked out for your best interests. If he doesn't like it, boo-frickin-hoo for him.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g