Well, time for a brief update! Saturday night I went to my first pot luck mixer in my apartment building, they hold them a few times a year apparently. As I walked through the door with my cherry pie a fellow calls loudly across the room "Hey, there good looking"...this could be my last pot luck mixer. Why are the good ones always gay? Oh right, that's what the women say. Btw, the apartment mixer is a great place if you want to meet women on government assistance and moochers like me looking for a free meal...and the gay guy. Oh and a really exciting thing is I've written a profile with a picture and put it on one of those dating sites...but I hid it so that no one can see it on the site. I just wanted to see what it would look like for that big day when I go public. Now the site administrators keep hassling me with emails daily. I guess it's small steps for Whatis, it's the best I can do folks. My two year separation anniversary is coming up in October. I've actually seen the two year one be a killer for others. I'll get ready! I have a friend who still sits and cries every time her ex gets a new main squeeze...she cries alot...and that's after six years of separation. Whoopee, it's just one big party, ain't it. Umm and yes, that is the update...the excitement never seems to end! Later Dbers.