I would chime in with everyone that this needs to be fixed before you marry. I had a couple of chances to force the issue to be worked on and allowed a I'll try to suffice so 15 years and a daughter later I'm regretting not forcing the issue so we would have gotten counseling then rather than now. If I knew what I was in for I would have stayed single, at least when your alone at night you know whats going to happen and when your not alone you have pretty good idea whats going to happen.
