WF, As far as D goes, she hasn't filed.... yet and I am not sure how it would take. If we agreed to everything, it would only take 30 days, but my L said she doesn't have a no fault case and I could push it out to 18 months outside of the home, which in my case has already been 6, so it would be a year from now.
W told me that her L said she will get full custody and I am pushing for joint. She was in agreement to that until her L said otherwise. We will see on that but I will go to war on that.
As far as assets go, my L said that I am entitled to 1/2 so again, we will see if it comes to that.
My W is someone I don't even know anymore. She is not even remotely the same person as she used to be. I can't stand knowing that this little punk is with her and there is nothing that I can do about it.
I need to get caught up on your sitch. I will go over and do that now. Thanks for posting and you hang in there and we can help each other!