He's stalling. It's time for you to drive this R for a change. I'd tell him that if he wants any chance of working things out, he will go to the next session no matter what. No excuses, no reasons, no more stalling.

Man's a bully.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!