I think it is great that you were able to mention this site to him. You are obviously working at this in the right direction in that you are initiating steps to communicate. I find that initiating that conversation is that hardest thing to do. It sounds as if he really had no reaction to it? What is he thinking about? Would you show him the site? Have you read the book yet?...still waiting on mine...I think the book might lead to avenue for discussion as well.
The fact that he is making some attempts for you is proof that he does want you to be happy as well. What is the happy medium? After reading some of the posts I am thinking that we should really put into a list the reasons why sex is important to us. This is my plan in the next few days...to really think about why this upsets me and to put it onto paper. I think this will be useful in future discussions with the BF. I'll share a little when the list is completed.....
