No answers here. Just want you to think about how you see your post-D life if/when it happens. If you still see being friends then fine, be friends. But if you don't see yourself being that close then I would suggest you start moving toward that now. I'm not advocating being rude, just not as close and personal. How much would you confide in a neighbor or coworker?

If you love somebody, set them free.
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