Dear G., I really thought of my situation when I married my husband in 1996 when I read your post. I was also the one more interested in sex although I didn't really mind and kind of enjoyed initiating sex and getting him to respond. Well it did get worse and we stopped having sex when I stopped initiating! I now feel lonely, rejected and trapped. Don't marry him unless you can accept the possibility of not having a sexual relationship in your future. Perhaps there is hope if you start counselling now and learn about why he is having trouble with intimacy but there are no guarantees. Good luck to you. Starving