Grace, I too have learned to gingerly deal with delicate situations rather than charge in and use my previous strong handed approach.
Kids are such a blessing. I used to think 18+ years was a long time to raise children until I became a dad. Now it isn't long enough. I admit, mine have made it easy on me. They truly are great kids. They aren't perfect but they are pretty close.
I am glad you have your Ds with you all the time. BTW, when did they grow up? Weren't they little just yesterday?
I am sure I will find you on FB. I already know where some of the old timers from DB are on the site.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God