I think part of this is going to have to entail you manning up and perhaps calling her bluff
by doing what? getting a lawyer...telling her to sleep in another room? im not pouting
Yet to be determined. I am not one for impulsive hollow moves...check out Thinkers thread. You get there when you get there and if you jump the gun, you really make it worse. I personally think there's a process to really detaching and you can't hasten it by sheer wanting...maybe you can hasten it some but it is an experience. I hope that makes sense.
