Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
...walk through the grueling fire of separation, divorce and all of its inherent pain and loss AND still simultaneously retain a willingness to see WAS anew, perhaps as a prospect among many, always deserving to be viewed through a new lens should he or she, against the odds, man or woman up to our new and well clarified standards...


Hmmm...At this point I feel like I can't get far enough away. I'm not joking when I say I've actually been pricing out places to live in sunny Island State. Every interaction is a bad reminder, indifference, or a return to the good ol' days of "you're not doing this, that, or the other thing right." Couple that with the demand from the other side to reconfigure the arrangement into this new thing called co-parenting, include BFF as the co-mom, and you'd better be happy with it. Nah, I don't want to play this anymore.


"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh