"How can two people be so compatible in all areas but the bedroom?”
I keep asking myself the same question. This is eating me from inside. I keep telling myself- this is someone I love, I get along with wonderfully, he has so many things I want in a man- I feel blessed, and lord knows there aren't so many other men out there that are so right for me- so I really don’t want to break up. On the other hand, I am really afraid that I am walking with my eyes open into something that is going to be a disaster. I read other posts of people who are married for 20 years and I get so frightened that this is going to be my faith. But I really love this man and want to be with him. I tell myself, during the good times- ok I can live like this - its ok. But then I remember the bad times - and I am afraid they will come again. I also know that even if he will try to have more sex etc, the knowledge that I want more, and that he isn't as passionate as I am about our love making will always eat at me. This is really horrible. On the one hand I tell myself- you have your warning- don’t go ahead and make this official when you know there is a problem. On the other hand I just want to hope everything will be ok. I can vent like this for hours. for me, this is one area I can't talk about with anyone- not even my closest friends- I don’t want to hurt his privacy- you know the stigmas on man- I didn't even think there was such a thing like LD men before I found this board..
How does your boyfriend react to talks about this issue?
(p.s. - sorry about spelling mistakes- English isn't my mother tongue... )
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