Sorry Chel, but I am stuck on this "intellectually passionate" phrase. It seems like such an oxymoronic thing to say. Intellectual implies cool, rational steadfast thinking. Whereas, passion is a type of frenzied excitement evoking images of unthinking desire. Makes no sense to me. The only way it does make sense is that it is a mechanical lust, driven by eroticism, rather than love and affection.
But, that's just me. Given the description above, I would not feel insulted in the least. This just shows the level of his confusion, further clarified by thinking he's told you things which he has not (rewriting history).
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim