I pushed a few weeks ago. My W blurted out how much I had hurt her and she would never committ to me again. It was kind of an eye opener. She kind of admitted that she could feel the feelings for me again, but she didn't want to.
At least that made more sense that the "if it was mean to be" talk.
Once again, I say "If we were meant to have this house, I shouldn't have to work to make the payments." or "If I was meant to be in good shape, I wouldn't have to go the gym to work out. It would just happen." Gotta love the throries on how magic pixies would just fix things w/o work if it were "meant to be."
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
